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Post by Aedon Durreah on Apr 10, 2011 16:23:59 GMT -5
Lady Pandora recently suffered a deeply personal loss when one very close to her was killed in a car crash. This person was as close to her as a brother, though not blood, he was family.
She will be leaving tomorrow for the funeral and to get his affairs in order, and at this time fully expects to be absent from UO for a period of two weeks. Seeing that many of COD were also either friends of the man, or offering support to Pandy in her loss, they may also be away from the game.
To this end, Pandora, Barnaby and others will not be able to attend events until all is settled. The Full Moon Ball will need to be postponed to a later date, and some other plans put on hold until her return.
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Post by Pandora de Romanus on Apr 28, 2011 13:50:06 GMT -5
My dear online friends...
I just wanted to let you know that I am still in South Florida, dealing with the aftermath of this deeply-felt loss. My best of best friends, Lucas (Luke), was tragically killed on April 8th, just two days shy of his 37th birthday.
He was involved in an accident with his semi-truck when another semi-truck pulling out from the breakdown lane did not see Luke's semi-truck caused the initial accident; he was an over-the-road driver. As he was crawling out of the truck's cab, probably disoriented, hurt, and in shock, he was then struck by a car that did not attempt to stop or slow down when the first accident happened as he was trying to flag down some help.
I cannot convey the depth of my despair. Luke was my best friend first and foremost, but he had also been my boyfriend for 7 years and we had been attached at the hip for 22 years --- since I was 14. At one point in my life, I had wanted to marry Luke, have kids with Luke. I am so terribly lost without him... we talked to each other at least once a week if not more.
I need a way to channel my grief, so I am starting a foundation in his name to honor his memory. I am not sure exactly what would be the focus of it yet... but I feel this is the best way for me to keep him with me.
As for UO, its taking a backseat right now, but I will soon come back to it... Luke and I played UO together for many years. And I have his account, often using his character Memphisto (who I play as Pandora's brother because that's what he was to me IRL).
I want to thank Aedon for the post informing you guys of what had happened. I want to thank all my friends that have emailed or contacted me on Facebook regarding this difficult time. I will keep everyone posted and hope to be able to come home and open the Brew once more for folks to come and enjoy the RP that Luke and I enjoyed so much for so many years. I will be on Memphisto every so often and tip a glass to him.
Love,
Pandy
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Post by Va'lis on Apr 28, 2011 16:52:13 GMT -5
Take the time you need. We aren't going anywhere.
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Post by Aedon Durreah on Apr 28, 2011 19:18:36 GMT -5
My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you as you continue to deal with this great loss.
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Post by Rianna Edmunds on Apr 28, 2011 22:43:26 GMT -5
*hugs a Pandy*
You have been in my thoughts. Take all the time you need. I know what he meant to you, and what a great loss this was. Hold those memories dear, and try to find the courage to smile, it will help.
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Post by Rameses on Apr 29, 2011 10:47:33 GMT -5
*Stands with Pandora in silent Prayer*
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Post by Aneirin on Apr 29, 2011 11:38:04 GMT -5
All the best wishes for you Pandora.
We'll be around when you decide you want to be back.
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Post by Aphroditie on Apr 29, 2011 22:28:44 GMT -5
Take your time Pandy, and if you need anything let me know.
*Hugs*
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Post by calli on Apr 30, 2011 8:34:42 GMT -5
Pandora, I am always here if you need me. You have my number if you ever need to yell or vent. I think of you often and the deep loss you have been through. Take whatever time it is you need to begin the healing process and come back to us when your ready. *hugs and squeezes* Calli
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Post by Pandora de Romanus on Jun 9, 2011 12:30:25 GMT -5
I want to thank my friends in UO for the time that's been allowed me to be able to get my best friend/brother's affairs in order. It definitely took longer than I expected; most of that being my emotional state needing to process this loss. I am going to be returning to UO, along with my close friends, so I do hope to see you all around. In character, CoD was "back on Earth for a while tending to the grand opening of their Paris theatre"... hehe.
I can promise that CoD will be once again devoted to throwing the biggest RP parties in town. I hope you do come join us.
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Post by Aedon Durreah on Jun 9, 2011 13:57:02 GMT -5
Welcome back Pandy.
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Post by Rianna Edmunds on Jun 9, 2011 14:37:53 GMT -5
I kept things under control for you while you were gone. *smiles*
Welcome back, sweetheart.
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Post by Rameses on Jun 9, 2011 18:29:52 GMT -5
*Bows head slightly* ...Missed you Greatly M'Lady
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Post by Alyssia Kanath on Jun 9, 2011 19:26:42 GMT -5
Welcome back Pandora. *smiles*
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Post by Seti Azrael on Jun 10, 2011 12:39:23 GMT -5
Indeed, welcome back.
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